One of the most unknown figures of the Bible, is Jesus’ father Joseph. Even though little is known about his life, he was a man whose strong belief and conviction to do the “right thing” will live in infamy.
Joseph had immeasurable impact on the world. Even though he was last mentioned in the Bible when Jesus was 12 years old, we can take away solid lessons from how Joseph lived his life.
When confronted with the news that Mary, his wife-to-be, was pregnant, the Bible says Joseph was going to quietly break off the engagement. Joseph and Mary had not consummated their marriage and Joseph knew he was not the baby’s “father.” The New King James Version of the Bible in Matthew 1:19 said “being a just man, and not wanting to make her a public example, was minded to put her away secretly.” Even though Joseph was likely devastated, hurt, embarrassed, and terribly disappointed, he was going to act in manner that showed dignity towards Mary. Tradition, at the time, could have allowed for Joseph to rebuke Mary and have her stoned.
When confronted with embarrassing situations, when we are disappointed by our circumstances or how it will “look to other people,” how do we react? Many times when we are hurt, we lash out with words or emotions, seeking revenge on the other person. Sometimes our emotions and vindictive minds get the best of us. The feeling of embarrassment drives us to revenge, seeking to hurt the other person more than they have hurt us. We react before we think and we are at our worst. Maybe that is just me.
Matthew 1:20 tells us that an angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream telling him “do not be afraid to take you Mary your wife, for that which is conceived in her is of the Holy Spirit. And she will bring forth a Son, and you shall call His name Jesus, for He will save His people from their sins.” Verse 23 says “Behold the virgin shall be with child, and bear a Son, and they shall call His name Immanuel, which is translated, “God with us.”
Thankfully, Joseph listened to God’s command. Rather than allow his earthly emotions to influence his actions, he followed the Lord’s guidance. That was a decision that we should forever be grateful for. It is hard to imagine the impact on Jesus’ life if Joseph would not have married Mary, and left her to be a single mother.
There are so many great things about Joseph and his decision. Here are a few traits that I admire about Joseph.
1. Obedience – He followed God’s word even though he knew he would face negative consequences.
2. Compassion – He was there for Mary with the birth of Jesus and took on the role of his legal and earthly father.
3. Integrity – He fulfilled his commitment to wed Mary and raised Jesus with good spiritual training.
4. Faith – Regardless of the earthly shame, he believed in God’s word.
Life brings tough decisions. Emotions are powerful. Our thoughts drive our actions. The control of our thoughts and reactions are what we turn to God for. He will guide us and lead us. We need to trust Him.
If you are in a time of need, and need to make tough decisions, turn to Jesus. He will be your guiding light.
Lord God, please wash over me with your loving grace and help me navigate my life. Please provide me clarity and understanding. Please clear my head of the stress and anxiety and wash over me with your divine presence. I trust you Lord. I know you love me and want what is best for me. Thank you for all you have done for me and I praise your Holy Name. Amen.
